Content Warning: this post discusses sexual harassment, stalking, and sexual assault.
I've recently been introduced to Young Justice, a superhero cartoon featuring beloved sidekicks of the Justice League. It started in 2010 and wrapped up earlier this year. I'm a big fan of superhero cartoons, having grown up on the DC Animated Universe. So Young Justice is right up my alley.
But if Kid Flash doesn't have a drastic character adjustment pretty soon, I'm giving up on the show.
Kid Flash, AKA Wally West, is one of the founding members of the Justice League's covert junior team. As soon as he meets teammate Miss Martian, he starts hitting on her. She brushes him off.
And so begins a campaign of sexual harassment that, seven episodes in, shows no sign of ending soon. It's annoying enough to watch as a viewer, because harassment isn't funny, but what it says about this world and the morals of these alleged 'heroes' is pretty gross.
Aside from Robin making fun of Kid Flash with no apparent concern for Miss Martian's personhood, no one has called him out. Neither Robin nor team leader Aqualad has pulled him aside and said "Bro. She's not interested. Quit being a creep." The adult members of the Justice League don't seem concerned, either--though given how the adult Flash behaves, it'd not hard to work out where young Wally picked up his views on women.
So Miss Martian has to put up with not just killer robots and evil monsters, but also with an incessant campaign of sexual harassment. On top of that, she has to rely on a team that clearly doesn't have her back. They'd rather laugh about Kid Flash's behavior than tell him to knock it off.
As far as the show is concerned, this situation is funny. We're meant to laugh at Wally and his pathetic antics, rather than empathize with how awkward and uncomfortable his harassment makes things for Miss Martian.
If it were just this one obnoxious character on one show, it'd be an ignorant joke in terrible taste. But Kid Flash is part of a larger pattern of pop culture heroes portraying sexual harassment as funny or endearing.
This stuff matters--not just because it's an annoying trope that alienates harassment and assault survivors, but because it leads to real people getting harassed and assaulted in the real world. It perpetuates the idea that harassment is normal courting behavior, and that "no" actually means "keep asking me until I change my fickle girly mind and fall madly in love with you." Some folks who've been raised on a steady diet of this trope have it so bad that they take anger and contempt as signs that their victim secretly likes them back.
A guy who assaulted me went on to subject me to this kind of 'funny' harassment. He was a friend of my brother's and a member of a social club I was very heavily involved in, so I had no good way to avoid him.
Among other obnoxious behavior, he was constantly calling me 'babe.' Every single time he did it, I told him to knock it off. I tried patiently explaining that I found it demeaning. I tried yelling. I tried getting up and leaving the room. I tried flipping him off and calling him sexist.
He kept right on doing it.
One day he told me he did it because the main character in his favorite book did it.
I bet the romantic interest in that book told the main character to quit calling her 'babe,' too. I'll bet she was a Strong Female Character who Didn't Put Up With Nonsense.And I'll bet by the end of the book, his campaign of harassment had changed her fickle, girly mind and she'd fallen madly in love with him, thus completing his hero narrative of the good guy getting the girl.
The guy who assaulted me? His campaign of harassment didn't end that way.
It ended with him assaulting me a second time.
Since I grew up watching cartoons, I'm used to superheroes telling me about seat-belts, recycling, stranger danger, staying away from guns, and not trying superheroics at home. Would it have killed Young Justice to have a member of the Justice League take young Wally aside and tell him that heroes treat women with respect?
Or, better yet, they could have just not included 'funny harassment' at all, because harassment isn't funny, and Miss Martian is supposed to be there to fight bad guys, not to teach socially-awkward boy geniuses like Wally how to behave around women.
 TV Tropes has several pages full of examples, including: